What I think about lies

Good evening fellow readers. I've completed my Management Theory exams and they went fine. Today I just wanna rant, rant on how much lying irks me.

Okay, basically we have many levels lying. Firstly, there's the white lie which we use pretty often so as to not hurt people's feelings or what not. I'm perfectly fine with white lies because if a fat girl asks me if she's fat, I'll obviously say no because I don't wanna hurt her feelings. Of course, sugarcoating your words will be better, like saying "No, just a little chubby". So personally, I feel that white lies are acceptable.

However, we have the second degree of lying, which is not being honest. Like if you had a boyfriend and he goes out late at night to clubs without telling you. Sometimes it's technically not lying because he didn't say that he wasn't going either right? So that's probably fine on some level. It depends on the situation really, I suppose.

Then there's the LIES where they completely just lie in your face. "Did you do that?" "No" When he actually did. That's where it becomes a problem, he lied. (I ain't pin pointing nobody so chill) Honestly, lies are a part of who we are. We all lie at some point of time in our lives. Whether it's lying to our parents, friends or lovers. HOWEVER, what if the situation comes down to where you KNOW he/she lied and they still deny it???!!

That's what I feel is the most fucked up because how do people find it in their conscience to say "No I didnt" when all the evidence is right in front of our fucking faces? I mean not only do I find that it makes us, the victims of the lies feel betrayed, but they also should feel guilty right? But seeing how people lie and say stuff like "Oh, she's just a friend" or "Oh I didn't go out with girls" or whatever lies you can think of, it's so crazy because if it was me, I would probably die from the guilt and be honest instead. I mean if you lie and you don't get caught, that's your luck. But if you do get caught, that's a different story isn't it??